Wendy Stuart and Guest Co-Host Skip Muller Present TriVersity Talk! Wednesday 7 PM ET with Featured Guests Mark Aaron James and Chris Ruetten


Wendy Stuart and guest co-host Skip Muller will be hosting TriVersity Talk! this Wednesday at 7 PM ET with featured guests Mark Aaron James and Chris Ruetten

TriVersity Talk! is a weekly web series with featured guests discussing their lives, activism and pressing issues in the LGBTQ Community. With TriVersity Talk!, the goal is to laugh and learn.

TriVersity Talk! Is part of TriVersity’s ICARE Initiative. ICARE stands for Increasing Community Awareness through Relevant Education. ICARE Programs are generously funded by The Greater Pike Community Foundation.

Skip Muller

Born in New York and raised on Florida’s Space Coast during the days of I Dream of Genie, Skip is a lifetime lover of the ocean – which might explain why he turned down a college scholarship to Florida State University to enlist in the navy after he graduated from Cocoa Beach High School. As a gay sailor and Russian linguist in the Navy U.S. Navy back during the Cold War, when N.C.I.S. carried out gay purges before Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT) was enacted under President Clinton. Skip navigated coming of age under tense circumstances for many years through graduating from the U.S. Naval Academy and serving as an officer aboard two warships. Skip left the Navy under DADT, which might have seemed like a negative experience if not for meeting the love of his life, Deth, an immigrant from Laos in 1998 who became Skip’s domestic partner, then legal husband. Marrying into the Laotian-American immigrant community provided an exotic and enriching life, especially considering how his husband is a talented fine-dining chef. In 2006, Skip and Deth kayaked the Mekong River through parts of Vietnam, Laos and Cambodia, giving Skip an incredible life opportunity to experience the culture that Deth came from. Skip has worked for a few of the biggest companies and government agencies in the U.S. and world doing technology and cyber work, co-founded a cyber consultancy that did served the senior technology leaders of the U.S. and European government agency, and continues to work as a member of the board of the non-profit Lao Heritage Foundation, which keeps the art, music, dance and culture of Laos alive through childrens’ programs in nine chapters around the U.S., and one in Laos. An avid aspiring screenwriter for many years, Skip had an agonizing near miss with selling a TV series in 2018 and continues to write while leading a new international business venture and doing consulting work for a Biden appointee at HHS (Health & Human Services) running $12B+ in rural poverty alleviation programs in Washington, D.C.. While Skip has cycled through a few different careers in the military and business, he has always striven to live a life rich with creative arts pursuits, diverse and fascinating friends, mentorship of of at-risk, underprivileged and GLBT youth, and support for non-profits that do great work for the environment, wounded military veterans and their families, Laotian culture and poverty alleviation, and underprivileged people in the U.S. and around the world. Skip marched in Washington to protest DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act) and DADT, and is a long-time supporter of the gay activist organization The Human Rights Campaign. Skip’s husband, Deth, while working as a chef at a dude ranch in Wyoming last summer, rescued a tuxedo kitten, Dethcifer, who has his own Instagram account (https://www.instagram.com/dethcifer/) and gets more hits on his hilarious video reels than anything Skip has ever done. 

Mark Aaron James

“It’s my favorite song about a kleptomaniac girlfriend…Aquaman…The Antiques Roadshow, I hope it’s yours.” That is New York based singer/songwriter Mark Aaron James introducing a few of his quirky takes on universal themes. Borders News labeled these innovative songs, “Some of the best and most introspective pop music we¹ve heard in years.”

Born in California and raised in Cocoa Beach, Florida, Mark Aaron James seemed an unlikely candidate for the Nashville songwriter scene. With a strong pop-rock background in tow, he enrolled in Music City’s reputable Vanderbilt University and soon became a popular fixture on the “porch party” circuit that years earlier supported the Indigo Girls, Ben Folds and Hootie and the Blowfish. Mark brought that following into the local venues where the famous “in the rounds” gave him a new challenge. Now sharing the stage with Nashville’s hit writers, Mark realized, “If you don’t have a song as good as the writer before and after you, then you are the bathroom break. It really provoked me to focus on craft, along with inspiration.” The results lead to co-writes with top songsmiths and his compositions being performed by everyone from Jimmy Buffet to the World Peace Choir.

The year following his critically acclaimed indie release, Mr. Wirehead, Mark was awarded “Best Local Songwriter” and “Best Up and Coming Band” in the The Nashville Scene’s Reader’s Poll. In the weekly mag, owned by NYC’s Village Voice, Mark beat out John Hyatt, Lucinda Williams, Steve Earle and several other luminaries. With the release of his second CD, Adventures With A Plastic Bag, he earned both awards again the following year. The title song from that CD went on to make the top 100 songs of the year on Nashville’s WRLT Lightening 100, gaining airplay on Atlanta’s 99X and was added to 126 CMJ reporting stations, breaking the top ten in 12 markets.

Despite this success, Mark was regularly reminded that he was a rock singer in a town known for country music. After playing well received shows in New York’s Living Room and being featured on PBS’s CD Highway and I-Dig’s Rawdio programs, Mark decided it was time to make New York City his home base.

Moving in 2001, Mark began headlining in venues as varied as the Living Room, Rockwood Music Hall, The Bitter End and the Westbeth Theater. New York’s Underground Music Organization (UMO) voted him one of the “Top 14 Singer/songwriters in Greenwich Village,” and featured him as the opening track on their annual CD. With the completion of his next CD, Just a Satellite, Mark’s song “June 17th” was included in “Lost.”

In January, 2008, Mark was awarded a rare Artist Visa for the UK.  It merited a move to London. Mark secured several regular shows throughout Europe and became the host of the “On Stage” acoustic showcase at HALO, the PRS Venue of the Year.  His “Live in London, Simple Ingredients” CD was released in early 2010 to rave reviews soon after.  During the recording process, Mark also made his West End debut, performing with Alan Cumming in the show “I Bought A Blue Car Today.”

Mark returned to NYC in the summer of 2010.  Since his return the “Worlds of Warcraft” animated video for his song “Aquaman’s Lament” on the “Spiffworld” YouTube page continues to average thousands of hits a day. The CD “Throwing Shapes” was released in 2012, once again garnering great reviews. While touring for the project, Mark was honored with an invitation to perform a Christmas concert at the White House in Washington D.C. A recording of that show was released as a holiday album benefiting the American Red Cross. The follow-up to his critically acclaimed 2015 CD, Play Harder, resulted in more glowing reviews and a successful tour through Japan and Singapore. Mark’s most recent project is the first nationally distributed album only physically available on a USB Stick, (It is also available at all regular digital retailers). “My Mighty MAJic Stick” was released in May of 2017.

In 2019 Mark wrote the music and “book” for a new musical, HERO: An Origin Story. The show was selected by the New York Musical Festival, and was performed several times at Playwrights Horizons on 42nd street. It was voted runner-up for Best Reading at the festival. While continuing to tour with his music, Mark is currently working on bringing HERO back to the stage in New York, and abroad, while writing a follow-up show, as well. Updates on both can be found via his social media links throughout this page.

Chris Ruetten

Chris Ruetten is a Northwestern University Theatre graduate, professional musical theater performer, photographer and creative producer. Regional theatre credits include: Georg in Spring Awakening (Cygnet Theatre), Kyle in Hero: Greg Louganis Musical, Alan in Bare: Pop Opera (Diversionary Theatre), and Vietgone (San Diego Repertory Theatre). In New York City, Chris has photographed for plastic surgeons, jewelry companies, restaurant groups, short films, weddings, watch brands, real estate brokers, and Broadway talent and theaters. He has also directed/produced music videos, sketch comedy shorts, and other video content. Chris’ songs HOT BOYS & TOP IN LA, BOTTOM NYC are quintessential to his brand (found on Spotify) and his new musical THE TEST is his favorite thing he’s ever created. @chrisruetten

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